• i don't care what other people think about me, or have any doubt about my choices, i don't want to explain or prove how reasonable, valid or rational a choice is. A choice is just a choice. When it's made, that's what it is and nothing more. A choice doesn't need so many explanations, it's just a result of your mechanism responding to time.
• what makes one tired and uncomfortable is we want people to feel happy about our choice, so we have to make up the context the intention the explaining stuff even I really haven't thought so(much) when i made that choice.
• sometimes the worse thing is as you explain you start doubting yourself(before others doubting you), which is entirely UNnecessary.
• Now i don’t explain, i don't count on any understanding and i carry on. if someone wants to know they know.