La vita è una cosa seria, molto spesso tragica,qualche volta comica. I Greci dell’età classica avvertivano profondamente e coltivavano il senso tragico della vita. I Romani, in genere piú pratici, non ne facevano una tragedia ma consideravano la vita una cosa seria: di conseguenza tra le qualità umane apprezzavano in modo particolare la gravitas e tenevano in poco conto la levitas. -- Carlo M. Cipolla
喜剧和悲剧 可能是同一个故事的不同视角 生活是一系列的视角和观点，悲喜交加
就像一个棱镜，你在这个角上看一个人是笑的，另一个角上看他就愁眉苦脸。可你看的就是同一个人
喜剧产生于人与人之间接触时瞬间的内心活动 经常是出于——尴尬 我觉得这是一种非常human的品质 尴尬证明你俩感知到彼此的存在 在看对方的眼睛 或真的在听对方讲话 不在意就永远不会尴尬
喜剧出自不断失败的生活 which is 生活本货 作者从第一人视角跳出来 描述一个第三人 发现当场的悲催、绝望、尴尬此时变得格外滑稽有趣 幽默不是旁观嘲笑谁 而是发现人的可爱之处
菲编的伦敦生活 意大利有个剧叫我恨圣诞节 你我的生活 都是这类型
然后你就会神奇的发现 每个人都“不为人知的失败” 大家只是不说而已
速效救心丸=原来不是只有我失败/悲催/孤独啊
Comedy and tragedy may be different perspectives on the same story, Life is a series of perspectives and points of view, sad and happy.
Like a prism, you look at a person who is smiling in this corner, and he looks sad in another corner. But you're looking at the same person.
Comedy arises from the momentary inner activity of human contact, often out of - embarrassment(a very human quality), embarrassment proves that you both perceive each other's presence, are looking into each other's eyes or really listening to each other.
if you do not care, you will never be embarrassed
Comedy comes from a life full of constant failure, and the writer jumps in from the first person's point of view to describe a third person who finds the sadness, the despair, and the awkwardness of the scene to be hilarious and funny.
Fleabag, io odio il Natale (an Italian play, means I Hate Christmas), and your life and mine are all in that genre.
And you magically discover that everyone has "unspoken failures" that people just don't talk about.
Quick fix = I'm not the only one who's failed/miserable/lonely
Piano piano